Shanellie in this crazy old world. ♥

Pampalubag Loob. =))

BF: nagkatawa kaayo ko sa pic ni …. nga naka swimsuit…iya caption kay i am blessed..double meaning kaayo..

GF: ikaw gyuud..lahi na imong gihuna2x.. 

BF: tinuod man pud..

GF: so kung ako mag post og pic na naka swimsuit den muingon og I AM BLESSED..sarcastic?

BF: uhmmm medyo..

GF: woooow… you are so honest..i like that..hahahaha you are so honest it hurts. hahahaha

BF: you’re blessed in a different manner..you have me, who’ll always be faithful to you.

GF: pampalubag loob. HAHAHAHA

Random thought.

COMPETITION. Competition is only healthy when you are actually in a REAL COMPETITION. Competition outside a REAL COMPETITION? Well, it’s not entirely healthy. You may win in the end, but you’ll eventually lose something. Now what am I trying to say? You see…competition does not only happen in sport tourneys or quiz bees or contests or talent showcase or whatever… COMPETITION HAPPENS EVERYDAY, EVERYWHERE WITH ALMOST EVERYONE, friends included.

Competition, sometimes, comes out of jealousy. MAN, as man, are naturally jealous. We get jealous with what other people have; materials, relationships, grades, achievements, success, and so on. Competition, like jealousy, is healthy when you use it to become a better person. So when does it become unhealthy? It becomes unhealthy when you take it negatively. When you become so jealous you take it personally that you eventually hold a grudge on that person. You’re always on a lookout to find something wrong in that person that no matter how small it is, you’d use it against him/her just to eliminate the person. These people are the ones non-competitive people like me needs to avoid. He/she may not target you as a competition…but when he/she runs out of one, you will eventually be his/her target.

Sad thing is, they don’t even know they’re doing it. They won’t even admit it. Because they just can’t handle the truth. Because they’re fueled by pride. 

Well, I don’t have time for people like this. I mean at this moment, I’ve ran out of patience. Never abuse my ability to understand and forgive…because I’m only human, I get tired. So yea, I’m DONE. :)

REAL FRIENDS (the way I see it.)

REAL FRIENDS are hard to find. But if you act one, you’ll find plenty.  -Shanel

REAL FRIENDS for me are those who are not afraid to tell me I am wrong…

…those who are downright honest with me…

…those that would stop me from doing what is wrong…

…those that would never get in between conflicts of common friends…

…those who will never think of me as a competition to success…

…those who will never put or bring me down…

…those who never underestimate my capabilities and life status…

…those who won’t make me an instrument to feed his/her insecurities…

…those who would simply BE HAPPY for every success I have…

…those who would respect the person that I am; that includes my job, my family, my gender…

…and those who would help me out through things without making me feel inferior or making me feel like I owe him/her something..

YOU CAN NEVER REALLY FIND REAL FRIENDS IF YOU AREN’T ONE. The world doesn’t revolve around you. People will eventually get tired of adjusting or accepting your imperfections. People will eventually get tired of giving you second, third, fourth chances. So change for the better while there is still time…most importantly change while you still have friends…because “BETTER LATE THAN NEVER” doesn’t apply to all things… 

AFTER ALL, WHAT IS SUCCESS AND MONEY IF YOU DON’T HAVE REAL FRIENDS. So act like one. :) 

REMEMBER: REAL FRIENDS CAN’T BE BOUGHT! :)

DO I REALLY LOOK LIKE STITCH IN THIS PHOTO? hahaahahaha :))

If you could be one age forever, how old would you be?

20 =)

Ask me anything